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32 lines
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id: nvc-observation-step
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title: NVC Observation Step
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description: >-
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The first step of Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication — stating
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an observation free of evaluation, blame, or interpretation. Rooted in
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Rosenberg's work in mediation and peace education.
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source: Center for Nonviolent Communication
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source_url: https://www.cnvc.org/
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tags: [nvc, communication, conflict, listening]
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forked_from: null
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image: null
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steps:
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- headline: Identify the stimulus
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description: >-
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Before speaking, the person identifies the specific thing they observed
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— what they saw or heard, separate from any judgement about it.
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- headline: State without evaluation
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description: >-
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They articulate the observation as a factual statement: "When I saw the
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dishes left on the table after dinner..." rather than "When you were
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inconsiderate..."
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- headline: Invite confirmation
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description: >-
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The speaker can invite the other person's view of the same observation,
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allowing shared ground before moving to feelings and needs.
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outcome: >-
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The conversation begins from a shared, non-judgemental description rather
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than from accusation, reducing defensiveness.
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practice: >-
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Practice distinguishing observation from evaluation — "you were late" is
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often an evaluation. "We agreed to meet at seven; you arrived at seven
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twenty" is an observation. |