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id: nonviolent-communication-request
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title: NVC Request Step
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description: >-
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The fourth step of Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication — making
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a clear, actionable request rather than a demand. Used after observation,
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feelings, and needs have been shared.
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source: Center for Nonviolent Communication
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source_url: https://www.cnvc.org/
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tags: [nvc, communication, request, conflict]
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forked_from: null
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image: null
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steps:
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- headline: Form a concrete request
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description: >-
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The speaker makes a specific, doable request: "Would you be willing
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to check in with me before changing our shared deadline?" rather than
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"I want you to be more considerate."
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- headline: Phrase as a question
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description: >-
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The request is phrased as a question the other can answer with no,
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without punishment. A request is not a demand.
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- headline: Receive the answer
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description: >-
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The speaker receives the answer — yes, no, or counter — without
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withdrawing empathy or imposing consequence. A "no" is information
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about the other's needs, not a rejection.
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- headline: Continue the dialogue
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description: >-
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If the answer is no, the speaker returns to the other's feelings and
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needs, exploring what need the "no" is meeting.
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outcome: >-
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A clear request is made that the other can freely accept or refuse,
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keeping the dialogue in connection rather than coercion.
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practice: >-
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If a "no" leads to punishment or guilt, the request was a demand. Test
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yourself: would you still respect a "no"? If not, you are not yet making
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a request. |