id: ohlone-ceremonial-talking-stick title: Ohlone Talking Stick Circle description: >- A California Native practice of passing a ceremonial talking stick in council so each person speaks once, fully, before any reply. Practised among Ohlone and many California Indian nations for council decisions and peacemaking. source: Ohlone and California Indian traditional practice source_url: https://www.nlm.nih.gov/nativevoices/ tags: [ohlone, california-native, talking-stick, council, indigenous] forked_from: null image: null steps: - headline: Convene in circle description: >- The council convenes in a circle, often outdoors. The elder opens with a prayer or words of grounding and places the talking stick in the centre. - headline: Lift the stick to speak description: >- Whoever wishes to speak lifts the stick; only the holder speaks. The circle listens without interruption or facial judgement. - headline: Return the stick description: >- When complete, the holder returns the stick to the centre. Another may lift it. No one speaks twice until all who wish have spoken once. - headline: Elder closes description: >- When the matter is settled or the time complete, the elder closes with thanks and any decision is voiced. outcome: >- Decisions or understandings emerge with every voice honoured, in a form that resists dominance by the loudest. practice: >- The "speak once before any speaks twice" rule is the discipline. It prevents reactive debate and lets each contribution be fully received.